Hello everyone :) I hope you all are having a wonderful weekend! It is a brisk and finally sunny day here today. We are about to go walk downtown to visit some friends. I will take some pics of all the old wooden New Englander Homes we walk by on the way. They look like Ginger Bread Houses.
First I wanted to write a quick post on boys and when they should leave home. In our society boys are expected to leave home anywhere from the age of eighteen to twenty years. For most young men this is much to young and an unrealistic expectation. Obviously a young man can and will make his own decision as to when he should become completely self-sufficient. One of my observations though, is that some young men and their parents feel the need to conform and fit into what American society dictates as the “right age to move out” whether or not it is really what they want.
According to the newest Scientific Research the male mind does not even finish developing until it is twenty-six to forty years old! http://phys.org/news/2010-12-brain-fully-mature-30s-40s.html This explains why many of the men of the Bible lived with their parents literally right up until the time they married which could be up to forty years old. In fact marriage is the only reason given for men to leave their fathers and mothers. Jesus although He never married did not even start His lifes work (His mission) until He was thirty years old, not eighteen not twenty-one, but thirty years old.
Men need to be mentally, physically and spiritually strong in this world, now more than ever. Think about all that they are up against. A man could quickly have his body, mind or soul destroyed if he is not fully developed and therefore strong. Think about it like this: What if you were to plant a tree next to a raging river which often overflowed its banks in an area where there were regularly hurricane force winds. If you truly wanted to see the tree survive you would first nourish and tend it in your home until it was tall, thick and solid and could withstand all the assaults of the world. You would most certainly not plant it out in the winds when it was still tender and bendable.
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